If one my neighbors came to my door and accused me of stealing a laptop, and then wanted to come into my house, I would also refuse them access. It isn't because I'm guilty, but because I don't take orders from my neighbor.
Since when do you treat your neighbors with that kind of default animosity?
If there is a back story that is one thing but who cares if your neighbor looks inside briefly to see the find my feature is malfunctioning.