It’s like when my toddler tells me I’m not playing with his toys right.
“You’re using it differently than I like to use it!”
“You’re using it differently than I like to use it!”
Oh, and they aren't a toddler, they're adults.
Oh, and they aren't your kids, either. Not related to you at all.
Now your analogy is much more useful.
This just makes the toddler's position that much more stupid. As the owner of the toys, he's free to set the rules for how they can be played with. But not if he's giving them away.
We are currently in the in-between phase where a swarm of kids have shown up to play with the neat toys, are ignoring the rules, and are about to be kicked out to go play with their own toys, unless they can learn the rules.