It's because of them the Internet has become a sanitised, soulless, for-profit space. If Mastodon succeeds, companies will open their profiles on there, and watch how Mastodon will start to wither and die.
Just wait for the first "<big multinational company> has opened their own Mastodon instance" post in the near future.
The EU have had a Mastodon instance[0] before it was cool! (Although, it isn't open to the public and only has a few EU agencies as members.)
¿Por qué no los dos?
It takes two to tango.
Supply- versus demand-side problems.
Yes it will become like email where you can't really run your own server unless you want to spend the rest of your time fighting to get off corporate blacklists.
I do see other dangers though. Here are a couple bad scenarios I don't think there are adequate safeguards to handle gracefully:
Spammers, trolls, Nazis, etc... buy domains and spin up servers in an automated manner for the sole purpose of abuse. We saw that with email and while most of us get fairly little spam now it still isn't solved. To make matters worse, it's hard for anyone with a new email server to deliver to the existing big ones.
A VC-backed startup and/or existing big tech company decides to embrace, extend, and extinguish the protocol.
The September That Never Ended was the best thing that ever happened to The Internet.
Yeah, it brought all those obnoxious tourists, with their Hawai'ian shirts, straw hats, loud voices, and trash.
But they also brought money. Lots of money.
That's when this whole "make lots of money in tech" thing started.
Should be an interesting story.
I do miss the internet of the 1990s, but we can never go back there. What we can do, though, is fight for more open platforms.
We live in an environment where most users don't leave the safety of facebook/twitter/instgram/reddit. Advanced users are running darkweb sites and doing a number of things the average person isn't.
The world hasn't changed much. Are you seeking out and supporting the unusual or are you waiting for it to come to facebook/instagram first to tell you about it?
Can't forget this https://spacehey.com/
It’s kind of like, in the Nineteenth Century, large parts of the world were still unexplored, so authors like H. Rider Haggard and Arthur Conan Doyle, could write books like King Solomon’s Mines, or The Lost World, and people could sort of believe “it could happen.”
These days, we know our world much better. We can call up satellite views of Base Camp, on Mt. Everest.
But we are now looking much farther for “it could happen.”
“You’re using it differently than I like to use it!”
Oh, and they aren't a toddler, they're adults.
Oh, and they aren't your kids, either. Not related to you at all.
Now your analogy is much more useful.
This just makes the toddler's position that much more stupid. As the owner of the toys, he's free to set the rules for how they can be played with. But not if he's giving them away.
We are currently in the in-between phase where a swarm of kids have shown up to play with the neat toys, are ignoring the rules, and are about to be kicked out to go play with their own toys, unless they can learn the rules.