That doesn't seems to be right. Oryx lists 1450 lost Russian tanks, of which destroyed: 835, damaged: 62, abandoned: 53, captured: 500.
And these are only the visually confirmed losses.
https://www.oryxspioenkop.com/2022/02/attack-on-europe-docum...
The "this is all Ukraine's fault!" talking point has been around since before the war. Absurd, but definitely around.
If you think the statement is false, you could provide evidence-based arguments. For example, it should be possible to check whether NATO provided safety guarantees or not (it is an objective statement).
Obviously, given military, economic, media, etc superiority, NATO can do whatever to whomever with impunity.
If you think, there are no plans to dismantle Russia, why NATO refuses to make it official? (however little it might mean, given the history)
Look into who made a fat profit on all this tragedy. Cui bono. Make your own conclusions based on the facts.
It doesn't seem to matter, they'll keep repeating it, ad nauseam...