The original attribution of this line about monads comes from the (intentionally) comedic article "A Brief, Incomplete, and Mostly Wrong History of Programming Languages", published by James Iry in 2009: http://james-iry.blogspot.com/2009/05/brief-incomplete-and-m...
It is not a stance I have ever seen taken up in a serious manner by anybody in the FP community, and I work in PL academia (the region of the community from which I would expect to see the most snobbery). Please stop misrepresenting people based on a misunderstood joke.
There are people in the FP community who gatekeep and take on a snobbish tone — with that I do not disagree. However, their prevalence is generally overstated; it's a vocal minority situation. Most people I know or have talked to are very welcoming.