I think people are OK to admitting others are better, for example, I admit Hussain Bolt runs way faster than me. What people don't like is those "elites" telling us how to live our lives, or how to think, or what to accept as normal and what not, while coming from an extremely privileged background that most people don't have, where their "achievement" are more of a consequence of their upbringing and less of a personal success story.