Quantum mechanics does not match anything in your intuitive world. If you look at the mathematics, you'll see why: there are terms in the mathematics that don't appear anywhere else in the world.
At best, you'll draw analogies like the Fourier transform. If you understand signal analysis, you've got a better shot at understanding quantum mechanics. But that's getting further away from your daily experience, not nearer.
If you work with the math, we can explain why your daily experience is so different from the quantum world. You'd be able to see why a lot of quantum mechanics, all added together, behaves like a classical object, even though the actual truth of each individual particle is still quantum mechanical. It's not unlike any other statistical phenomenon: the average of rolling two dice will always be very close to 7, even though your first few rolls may well be as low as 2 or as big as 12.
That's why you can derive your intuitions from quantum mechanics, but not the other way around. Your intuitions, in a strict physical sense, are just plain wrong, and no amount of explanation will ever make quantum mechanics work like that.