It’s also been an observation of mine that most people have too much reserve capacity to notice they are running down until it is too late.
For myself, I’m bipolar. I have no reserve capacity. Every day requires finding the balance between being productive and not burning out. As a result, I am keenly aware I need significantly more downtime than I want to allocate.
I suspect this is the also the case for neurotypical people. Downtime feels like a waste to a person trying to maximize their life.
The way I’ve chosen to optimize my productive is to not focus on optimizing it. Instead, I try to enjoy life and stay conscious of small changes I can make. I know every decision is a choice that changes who I will become. But know I don’t need to make the right decision every time. The trend just needs to be in the right direction. :)