"normal man" vs "gay male" is a bit worrisome here.
[1] https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/07/28/what-...
i also wasn't talking about gay people in general, only gay people who use the stereotypical voice which is a pretty small fraction of them. i think you're reading too much into nitpicking that word instead of the other three paragraphs.