> significantly-sized companies that ripped Ruby out of everything as they scaled
I am assuming Ruby, used here meant Ruby Rails. Or specifically, ripped Rails out of everything as they scaled?
The calculus, in many situation would indeed be in flavour of another framework or language in ~2013. The cost of CPU Core has dropped significantly since then, we are not far from having 128 x86 CPU core in a single socket. Even if could only do 10 request per second per core at a target latency, this is 1280 Request per second on a single server. ( In the context of a non API serving App, or Server rendering App )
Edit: Miscalculation here, it should be 128 Core, 256 vCPU, so 2560 RPS.... but the main point still stand.
But at the Scale of Shopify, ~$33B Market Cap ( ouch.....I remember they passed $100B market cap in 2020 and $200B market cap in 2021... ) They could finally afford to pour some resources into Ruby. The only Top 10 programming languages without large cooperate resource backing. I am pretty sure the performance potential of YJIT and Ruby tooling has a ROI of less than 2 years at their Scale.