I wasn't willing to argue this before because my issue was not with the adjective. But actually black holes are not really black, they emit radiation.
> - "Hole" — things fall in and don't come out (more or less).
But things fall into any massive object like planets or stars, so "hole" is ambiguous. Things also fall out of holes, such as holes in a ceiling or screw holes.
> Plus they look like holes on those 2d representations of space-time. Seems reasonable to me.
It is a fair point to say that the hole of a black hole is a 4 dimensional hole, except that space-time is itself a 4 dimensional hole, leading to more ambiguity.