If we want to put up a metered paywall, and we do, then we need to deliver. That’s how I see the problem. You are using the product just fine.
Not only do I dislike that enough to not want to use Medium or Substack as a reader, but it also means that I would never want to use Medium or Substack as a writer, either; yeah, I have all of three blog posts to my name, but even my shitty writing deserves better than to have any association whatsoever with such user-hostility.