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> women might say it's okay to tell them about a problem and/or cry, but as soon as you do, they are immediately turned off by it and no longer see you as a strong man who can provide for her

From an evolutionary lens they are presenting you with a sneaky test and when you cry you fail the test :)

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Have you ever told them this in response to being told it’s ok to cry? Have you interrogated your assumption or are you operating on inferences without sufficient evidence?

“Women” aren’t some sort of psychosexual Kobayashi Maru where every choice is just a different wait to fail. They might surprise you if you’re willing to engage with them on the topic of how society is engineered to oppress those with feelings and compassion, like women, in places like the workplace, etc…

Psychology is closer to Pseudoscience than clinical psychology and medical science.

Women don’t belong to some secret organisation that go around testing men for their viable “genetic strength”.

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