Your second paragraph is just wrong in my experience. You are seeing the protracted childhood extend into your 30's for a large subset of millenials now. I don't see any way living forever will make someone going through their 20's and 30's care about the future if they don't have a personality already prone to that. It seems far more likely this protracted childhood without many cares extending out further and further is far more likely. Also old people aren't sitting around wondering how to extract more. They are generally sitting around thinking about how their money can continue pushing the world in the direction they want after they are gone. You may have observation bias because you only see old people in high positions that didn't tap out at some earlier point where their lust was satiated and they moved on to doing something else (of which there will be far more of than those that got to those high positions just by nature of the math of old people vs % of positions that are "high").
I think the only thing that will happen for sure if we make people live forever is stagnation as all the people who feel strongly about something that is wrong don't die off and instead accumulate, likely filling up good positions in society that otherwise would have gone to a younger, more dynamic up and coming person.