If you're talking about the sidecar process I think you're talking about, that thing sorta sucked. It was a great idea, but execution lacked and it caused all sorts of issues as a result. Also ended up becoming sort of abandoned, while people still relied on it for critical stuff.
Netflix eventually moved away from HTTP+JSON to gRPC for backend services, and also started to expose internal DNS-based service discovery. This removed the need for that sidecar from _most_ places, since you could just generate code from protobufs, but it created other problems. Specifically, it was hard to apply the same resiliency patterns across multiple languages when calling those APIs, and so that would then contribute to weird incidents.
I'm not there anymore, but last context I have is that things are moving to an Envoy-based model now. The idea is that everything will use the sidecar, and resiliency patterns will be baked in at that layer. I suspect that'll be a better architecture in the long run.