I don't think that the prescence of stack overflow questions is a bad thing, quite the opposite, that demonstrates that there is a community and you'll likely find every answer to each problem you have
Comparing that to a completely bespoke web app you stitiched together with various things you've liked over the years... I bet there are very few stack overflow questions that cover his stack. To me, that's a very bad thing.
The fact that you can quickly list out shortcomings in nextjs but not his bespoke stack demonstrates how much bigger the community is and how many more people are working on those problems. I prefer known problems to unknown problems, personally.
>This is not my definition of "automatic".
And a completely bespoke app is? Come on. Obviously a framework backed by thousands of apps, tens of thousands of developers and contributors, and multiple corporations, is going to be more automatic than "this bespoke thing I made".
>I get that Vercel provides a very quick setup and a smooth dev experience, especially if you are in their sweet spot of something like a static site or blog engine. It just seems more trouble than its worth for most CRUD apps, especially anything that isn't 100% in the javascript/typescript world.
I just can't disagree more. I do agree that as a web app grows in complexity you can outgrow Vercel -- but I'd MUCH rather be in the position of spending a few minutes pointing my repo at one of the dozen other services that scale with complex webapps better, or composing a simple docker setup and pushing that.
The alternative of having some bespoke app on a VPS... you're looking at a total rewrite to scale, imo. That bespoke app has a hard ceiling. That or you just keep stitching new stuff to the side of your frankenapp. Meanwhile Netflix, Hulu, Twitch, Uber, Nike, McDonalds, Apple and many others are launching massive scale web apps on nextjs, demonstrating that the technology is primarily for interactive full stack react web apps. The idea of using nextjs and launching a full react app for your static site sounds very over-engineered. Just do something on Github Pages or Jekyll.
I would go the exact opposite as you: playing around with your bespoke stack on a VPS is great for a static site or a very simple app, but the second you have any complexity at all, any real business logic, any real work being done... your bespoke app will turn into a nightmare, and nextjs is proven around the industry to do just fine!