I'm just sick of stuff like this.
An employer is expecting that an employee is loyal, but nevertheless he's trying to noble the potential employee from the beginning.
But you would be dumb doing it the other way, right? Sorry, but this kind of smartness harms the whole society.
So all the humble and self-doubting people are getting less than the loud and playing ones. Sure, the loud ones are the better, more loyal employees, right?
But you have to learn to be louder! No I don't have to and I don't want, because I like it the way I am.