My perception (unfortunately) is that NASA’s budget is its highest, but their public contribution and visibility are near its lowest. From the casual observer, NASA looks like two decades of mismanagement and a lot of whining about funding without doing anything to justify what they are getting.
Rocket tech lags because it competes with the private market, which the people with money don't like.
This is exactly backwards.
Rocket tech lags because NASA, via congress, has been captured by the private market to ensure that existing big players continue to get contracts. SLS is a boondoggle in large part because Congress required that it use half-century-old rocket tech. Not because of concerns about competing with the private market, but to ensure that the major players that got contracted to build the shuttle rockets half a century ago continue to get contracts.
This lagging rocket tech created by Congressional capture (and a similar situation in Europe) created the private rocket market, not the other way around as you suggest.
Apollo 18, Apollo 19, Apollo 20, and the orbit repair of Skylab have entered the chat.
I assume you're not adjusting for inflation? That seems more than a bit misleading.
unless, of course, "private companies" is your shortcut for "SpaceX".
which other launcher of the same class are being designed, build and launched at the moment by the way?
https://everydayastronaut.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Sup...
Relativity and Rocket Lab are working with NASA
https://www.relativityspace.com/press-release/2022/jan27/nas...
https://www.rocketlabusa.com/updates/rocket-lab-moon-mission...
Or focus on novel rocket science. There is so much opportunity in novel propulsion systems, from nuclear propulsion to ion drives. Most of this is only useful in deep space, a region the private sector has no interest in.