I never understood this "you don't have to be afraid" attitude. Children DO get kidnapped. Like, in really life. It's not just on TV. You can argue "but the probably is so small". Yeah sure, but I want to make sure it doesn't happen to MY children.
And they die in car accidents on their way to get a lottery ticket. And people are horrible about comparing such small probabilities.
On the other hand you'll inevitably 100% die and very likely leave your child to live in the world (s)he is scared of.
Odds of winning the lottery: one out of 302,575,350; Odds of your child being kidnapped in a year: three out of 250
https://www.creditdonkey.com/kidnapping-statistics.html
205 kids per year are abducted by strangers in US. More people per year win some kind of significant lottery.
Also, there are 80M kids, if 205 kids per year get kidnapped that's still better odds than winning the lottery.
And you can look at the raw incidence in various way to get various probabilities.
And even 205 in 80M is small enough so that people are unable to reason about it. Which you clearly display.