do us a favour, and sample a cohort of your friends outside your immediate circle, down to new families, wives with kids at kindy, and non-rural people. You certainly exist, but you're at the end of the curve. Thats the point of substance here.

I haven't driven more than 60km a week in 5 years, with occasional 150-300 forays and most of my fellow apt dwellers are the same. We know we exist, we know you exist.

if your answer is "we all do" then you are definedly in a very specific cohort, which I think you need to identify and clarify what % of the population you are. Hint: you probably aren't working in LA or NY where millions and millions of people live and work.