If our civilization as it is survives and does not collapse, then this "manual" is unnecessary.
It is only useful if our civilization has clearly failed.
Maybe sanitation was a huge mistake. Maybe antibiotics were a huge mistake. Maybe the remnants of humanity that survive the apocalypse will look back on a humanity all but wiped out by superbugs of their own making.
Maybe agriculture was a huge mistake. Maybe the march towards monocultures is inevitable, and the remnants of humanity that survive the apocalypse will look back on a humanity all but wiped out by blights or the total depletion of fertile topsoil.
For anything that we wish to impart to these remnants, there's a scenario where that is why we failed, because we must assume that we did fail to justify the attempt at the manual at all.
"we clearly failed" is catastrophising the current situation and is a defeatist attitude.
The use case for a "Manual for Civilization" is a scenario where we have failed, so it's a valid assumption when considering something like this.
It might be pretty unwise to create such a manual, because it would almost certainly be a manual for repeating the last set of mistakes.
Alternatively, hook the reader with the power of the nuclear weaponry, and write with an unironic lack of self awareness. Trust the reader to read between the lines. What could possibly go wrong?
In the hypothetical, our civilization has failed and a new group is trying to use this manual to start up civilization again. Who is to say that one of the things that we think we got wrong would, in fact, have saved our civilization?
To put it differently [1]:
> Who wants a how-to manual from a failed civilizations?
Because it could be not-failed at Time F but failed at Time X, and somewhere between the two a bad decision was made. If you know what the previous civ did, you can perhaps learn from their mistakes and bootstrap yourself until the bad branch point and take a different path at that point.