Rejections also directly impact a student’s graduation. No accepted papers at decent conferences? Delay graduation. It’s grating and unnecessarily stressful.
After graduation I was unmotivated to continue to bother publishing because I don’t care for this culture. I’m saddened by it.
There are positions in industry like at Sandia National Labs which require regular publication to remain employed. Again, given good work is done, rejections affect your livelihood. Too much stress.
I lost my “spark” thinking the field of CS systems research was one of exploration and community. It exists, but not as a whole.
/rant