Or to put it another way, you claim 1Password is not standards compliant. What standard should they be?
My experience is that Bitwarden has a clunky user interface, and I just don't trust them (yet) security-wise. I have no problem paying for an interface that my family can use.
1Password and Bitwarden are both really good options. If you are more in the Apple ecosystem, and prefer a great UX, then go 1Password. If you trust bitwarden, and are in other ecosystems, I think that's great too.
Throwing around phrases like "toxic optimism" and "standards compliant migration" is a bit low.
https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-password-man...