There is, as of now, no evidence China is preparing to invade anything. There's always sable rattling, hasn't happened yet.
> Wars happen when two or nation's drive for self-preservation collide
That's a naive view of war, which ignores individual a-holes. There's no self-preservation in Russia invading Ukraine...
I understand it's easy to despair and fear seeing some of the things happening in the world. I am much more optimistic.