Any argument without evidence can be summarily dismissed without evidence. So I argue that a vast majority, a massive amount if you will, of working people do want to increase their salary, basing this on my own goals and those of people I know and worked with over the last decade.
You are essentially relinquishing all negotiating power to the share holders of the company who are more than happy to pocket the salary that you are leaving on the table by giving them an uncompetitive monopoly on your labor.
Another poster in here bragging about giving his employer a 50% discount on his labor. Why would I give the shareholders of the company a work for a huge coupon on my life? That is just crazy to me.
I'm not arguing to be a salary-maximalist, but to insinuate it's not something a worker should always have in mind to some extent feels out of line with our economic system.
Your company is not your family. The company is loyal to you to the extent that it is contractually obligated to be. The coworker friendships that are worth maintaining longterm will survive past your time with the company.
> I bet most people don't think about their job as "giving discount on their labor"
All salaried workers would be better off if they did just that. As a reminder, Google and Apple engaged in a literal criminal conspiracy to suppress wages.
You cannot reverse that trend by simply choosing not to participate in getting paid more. By all means, don’t be motivated in your career solely for higher compensation. But also don’t feel bad for getting paid more. The money you leave on the table will just get taken by some other overpaid engineer, manager, or VC shaving pennies off of their costs anyway. Take the money for the sake of your loved ones, donate it, pay higher taxes if you want to. There’s nothing inherently unethical about it.
I would hazard to say, the more problematic situation about the ease of job-hopping in this industry is that it deprioritizes grit and perseverance. There’s always a better-managed organization, more feasible business model, higher quality engineering team for one to jump to when the going gets rough. That’s just as important as the promise of higher pay and title- why bother toiling if there’s always a slightly less dysfunctional org on the other side? So you end up with very transitory, evanescent companies because personnel keep disappearing every couple years.
But, I’m not sure if that’s really on the individual contributor to solve either. The question of retention and of building employee loyalty is really the responsibility of management. And with all of the dumb money that’s flowed into the tech industry thanks to interest rates and software being the primer economic lever of the times, companies have less incentive to make necessary changes. They themselves benefit from a very fluid workforce. If you job hop away your boss will just swap in someone who job hopped from another company. So maybe that’s just how it’s going to be until the next recession hits.
These are the (obscenely wealthy) people that you are allowing to arbitrage your salary.
I doubt other underpaid workers are celebrating the fact that your salary differential is paying for champagne on a super yacht instead of going to your kid’s college fund or more family vacations.
And I’m sure that the people/groups mentioned are pleased that they are able to pocket the difference en masse because of this economically irrational ethic.
You know the ones, always talking about leaving but never actually doing it.
Sometimes they're just rusty or afraid about the outside world, just because they haven't interviewed in so long.