The performance was good (TeamViewer was still slightly better imho) I just took issue with the commercial detection problems and then having to go to a webpage to beg for them to unban you.

I agree given the two options I’d choose and recommend AnyDesk first.

Over a 50/50 commercial wireless link RDP over wireguard was best for most users that I had test. AD/TV a close second and VNC was so perceptually laggy that it was a no go from the start.