The interactions you are describing seem way too unnecessarily complex for my liking, I am mostly looking to reduce cost of living, having a few drinks from time to time and playing the occasional board game night.
Being lectured about critical race theory or whatever, seems exhausting.
I don’t think I am that much interested about why people are doing the things they do. So being « educated » without asking for it, seems annoying.
All in all, I agree with the project of OP, it’s a good idea that people who want to educate others can segregate themselves with people who are interested by being lectured.