You couldn't be more wrong. We're talking orders of magnitude difference between giving birth and having an abortion. Abortions are comparatively extremely safe—especially when done legally in a medical environment. There are 0.4 deaths per 100k abortions. [1] Comparatively, 23.8 per 100k women die in childbirth every year. [2]
> even if someone was born of rape or incest, we don’t discuss killing them at 1yr old.
Important distinction: a 1 year old can exist outside of another human being's body. They can be put up for adoption or into foster care. An unborn being cannot.
[1] https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/06/24/what-the-da...
[2] https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/maternal-mortality/2020...