My vote is that pext and pdep are the highlight from BMI2.
Otherwise I agree that these are awesome, I know a fast Hilbert-curve implementation using those.
I'm not aware of an other extensions with such a slow implementation in first generations.
[1] https://www.agner.org/optimize/instruction_tables.pdf
It's unfortunate that PDEP and PEXT is part of BMI2. AMD probably wanted to push BMI2 for the other instructions and they had to include emulated PDEP and PEXT before they had a proper implementation for those.