Meta-analysis finds children with myopia experience higher levels of depression
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I was hyper-attentive in class to make up for it, had a few close calls. The most amusing was the yearly sight test from the school nurse. We did it in a group so I made sure I wasn't first and just memorized the letters others called out. The nurse then asked "are you sure you can see that alright? It's really strange, your sight has improved since last year". It was not my sight that had improved but my memory..
Of course I finally had to submit to reality, but I managed to hold it off til University, where was I able to reinvent myself somewhat and have the glasses be part of my identity from the start. Never gave up hating them. (Got laser eye-surgery eventually, biggest life enhancement I ever had).
I will never not upvote a comment that mentions something like this. Laser eye surgery (well, LASIK, specifically) is biggest external boost to my happiness that I've managed[1]. I would strongly recommend that anyone who can get it, absolutely should.
[1] https://old.reddit.com/r/KidsAreFuckingStupid/comments/p2c7v...
At 45yo, should I bother?
I have a three month camping trip coming up and wondered about trying to get my eyes done before then. Of course, I should've done them back in my 20s, but better late than never.
> I have a three month camping trip coming up and wondered about trying to get my eyes done before then.
My recovery took a few days (I had the more invasive procedure due to dry eye concerns) and I think they tell you to not do any activity where your eyes could get damaged during a few weeks just to be sure, so try to plan around that.
There is a slight smell of something burning, which is a little disconcerting, I can't lie.
A day of pain afterwards though, which wasn't great. But zero regrets, even on that day. And you have that with LASIK too, though not with LASEK, IIRC.
Here's my full comment: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31834633#31860661
Of course people should make informed decisions. I'm sure enough of the operations have been done to get a very informative risk breakdown. And if you are happy with glasses more power to you.
But anyway, sorry for the previous sharp reply. It wasn't warranted.
Here's my comment about all of this: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31834633#31860661
Contacts were a life changer in confidence for me.
Being able to play sports and like the way you look are healthy. My eyesight seems to be doing ok, too.
Eyesight won't suffer from contacts - it's the corneal surface that will.
https://eyeguru.org/essentials/corneal-abrasions-ulcers/
It's extremely rare but sometimes the ulcers can cause vision impairment. With contacts, the ulcers are generally ring shaped, and not anywhere near the actual focal plane, thus, they are only superficial, even if they end up scarring.
I think it comes from not being able to experience the world in full clarity. There’s a strong relationship with tinnitus and depression for what I’d think are similar reasons.
Finally saw an eye doc and caved on getting glasses. Wow what a difference. The first thing I noticed was that I could see blades of grass, and leaves on trees, and hairs on squirrels. They're not just green or brown blobs afterall. And people...they looked so different. Some better, some worse. I could see hairs, and wrinkles, and subtle visual cues I'd been missing. I must have spent 2 weeks just amazed at the world I'd been missing out on.
So while not clinically depressed or anything, I can confidently say the world is more depressing when it's blurry.
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/137695-children-who-stay...
> Strabismus surgery significantly improved symptoms of depression (SMD: 0.59) and anxiety (SMD: 0.69) in children.
These days most young kids get little choice about where they are dragged (or not) by their parents.
My daughter, 8yo, has started wearing glasses, she had similar feelings but we went to several opticians and got glasses for her that suited her face shape, they gave her so much more confidence. She's trialling Ortho-K lenses now as she enjoys sport but I think glasses are an easier thing to manage.
Glasses are actually cool. Being a nerd is also cool.
Don't let him think otherwise.
Source: have been wearing glasses for my myopia & astigmatism since middle school, am a nerd and am cool. ;)
2 people down, nearly 8 billion to go.
But seriously I agree, glasses are amazing. We shouldn’t look at it like we have to wear them; it’s amazing that we get to at all. They’re a marvel. It’s not always great to wear something on your face, but it’s a small price to pay for what they make possible.
But don't take my advice at face value - I'm a parent to a toddler, so literally the uncoolest person in the eyes of a pre-teen, not to mention teenagers.
What about optical correction like glasses?
(I got surgery, not glasses)
> n = 700,000
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Unfortunately, inaccurate scripts are often inflicted upon children which as I will describe later, compounds into worsening vision over time, with the opticians/optometrists prescribing higher and higher power lenses that are only solving an issue that is created by the previous history of inaccuracy! Telltale signs of inaccurate scripts include:
- minor corrections
Eyes are not static objects and vision actually does vary from month to month, day to day, lighting conditions, blood pressure, etc. If a correction is minor, it's almost always unecessary and harmful.
- slightly different prescriptions for left (OS) and right (OR) eyes.
99.9% of folks have equivalent vision in both eyes. Like I said above, if a difference is minor, a correction would almost always be harmful.
- minor cylinder corrections (astigmatism.)
Astigmatism is extremely rare and when it does occur it's almost never minor. These corrections are especially egregious as they cause distortion compensation.
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So why do eye professionals commit these cardinal acts of eye destruction upon their patients? Well we already discussed hastyness but that is clearly a vice that is going to result in bad outcomes in any profession.
What else? Well, eye professionals are taught to seek out as perfectly sharp an image as possible, and then back off the power a bit to reduce the possibility of eyestrain, headache, and dizziness. Some professionals don't even back off the power though..
In order to accomplish this task of perfect sharp vision, they add all of these minor corrections. When these ill-fitting lenses are worn for months on end, the body has a somatic response. The eyeballs elongate, which pushes the focal plane back, causing further myopia. [1]
The patient goes back to the eye doctor and now receives an even more incorrect script based on the transient state their eyes are in, induced by a cascading patterned history of harmful scripts.
In the worst case, the eye doctor recommends laser eye surgery which shaves the corneal lens of your eye into an artificial lens. Essentially, they carve your current harmful prescription straight into your eyeball. And then guess what happens? The eyeball shortens and often, the patients vision becomes progressively worse again. It can take months, but it does happen. [2] And now the fix that they recommend? More laser eye surgery. It's barbaric.
So please, do not get eye surgery before trying what I recommend below. Surgery on the cornea is advertised as non invasive but it can cause life long issues such as chronic dry eye. Please try to assess whether your vision is actually bad, or just a transient state due to a long history of bad prescriptions and poor habits.
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How do you break the cycle and restore your vision?
1) First, look at your current script. How asymmetric is it? How small are the cylinder values, if any?
Lower the scripts power and make the prescription symmetric. Remove the minor cylinder values. So for example, if you had -3.6 and -3.4 with some small astigmatism corrections, just ask for a script for -3.4 SPH in both eyes.
2) Make sure the pupillary distance is correct - eye professionals are notorious for fucking this up because the PD needs be to custom set for the frame the lenses will be going in, otherwise you'll have lenses with a focal center that is not aligned with the center of your eyeball. This causes distortion and uneven focus, causing eye strain and worsening vision.
3) Aspheric lenses - buy good lenses like Seiko double aspherics - just like cinema or photo lenses cost a lot of money because they reduce abberation and edge distortion, your eyes benefit from the same technology. Bottom dollar spherical lenses are okay, but strain is not healthy for eyes, and a good $300 set of Seiko transition lenses with coatings can last 10+ years. It's worth your eye health.
4) Have multiple pairs of spectacles. Use the weakest usable one (or no specs) depending on the task you are doing. For instance, I'm on my phone in bed, so I am not using any glasses. This will improve your vision over time. You can slowly reduce the power of your scripts if you care about it. I went from -4.75 to -3.5 and I'm happy with what I'm at, so I don't spend any effort trying to lower any further. But if you have the money, the time, and the will, you can get to -1.X territory through judicious use of a set of activity appropriate lenses.
Lastly, buy your own frame, buy your own pupilary distance tools, buy your own trial lens kit and trial frame like the Oculus UB6. Take time and figure out the right prescription for yourself without it being rushed. Test it and have it remade if the center of focus of the lenses is not at the center of your eyes. PD is integral!
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An eye professional who cares and understands these things CAN help and even properly measure these values but they are rare. Sometimes if you want something done right, you kind of have to do it yourself. Or at the very least, guide or give your demands. After all, you are the paying customer.
Hope this helps others break the cycle of worsening vision. If anyone has any question, feel free to reach out.
[1] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK470669/ [2] https://www.webmd.com/eye-health/news/20030410/some-patients...
Darn eyeballs got me down -_-