I am not a fanboy, but a realistic dude.
AMD ruled the last years but Alder Lake overtook Vermeer on both performance and price/performance.
And that is with a process node difference, Intel using 10nm vs AMD using 7nm.
And the future looks like Intel will enhance the distance between its performance and AMD's.
Intel didn't use EUV, so no.
Alder Lake relies on brute force, inefficient power consumption to regain the performance crown. AMD's chips are much more efficient, and efficiency matters in datacenters. There is only so much power and cooling available to each rack unit.
I think Sapphire Rapids holds a lot of promise, but it remains to be seen.
And in desktops performance is what matters. And price/performance ratio, and both are in Intel's favor.
Both Intel and AMD have plans to integrate memory more tightly onto the package of their datacenter processors in the next couple of years, IIRC, and that seems to be what the OP of this comment thread was hoping they would learn from M1.
But, whatever.