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Yikes, that's very much not consistent with my experience.

But I will admit that it's still much different in my 40s from say my late teens/early 20s. No amount of savagery in my mid-40s is going to make me the hornball that is my 19 year old self. That would probably require TRT.

Does that have any relationship to pornography usage? Porn usage affects those feelings but can negatively affect actual sexual performance, especially in monogamous relationships.

If by "fixing diet" you mean cutting out sugars/carbs or being in heavy deficit thats no wonder your libido plummeted. You could also be out of some micronutrients. You could be overtraining or you were into new lifestyle so much you werent bothering about females at all.

There is a phenomenon in some men where too intense or too much exercise can lower sex drive.