[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terminator_(solar)#Lunar_termi...
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terminator_(solar)#Lunar_termi...
EDIT: here is a better explanation: https://chrisjones.id.au/MoonIllusion/
OK, the point is that when the moon and the sun appear to be the same height in the sky the sun is actually "above" the moon, because it's further away. Therefore the moon is lit from "above".
Sure it does. If the sun were closer to us than the moon it wouldn't be possible for the sun to appear lower in the sky yet appear to light the moon from above. Indeed the opposite would be true: it would appear to light the moon from below.
So the relative distances to the objects is exactly relevant to determining from which direction the moon appears to be lit.
> It doesn't have anything to do with distance to the objects
yet if the moon and the sun were the same distance from the Earth the phenomenon would not occur, so I'm having trouble understanding what your claim means. It seems the phenomenon can only arise because of the difference in distance to the objects.
EDIT: No, I think that's not even right. This is very mind bending!
This stackexchange question[1] has some interesting answers. The pictures where the lady is holding a globe and the one that shows the sky as a circle (round horizon) vs a flat horizon are my favorite.
[1] https://earthscience.stackexchange.com/questions/14809/what-...
Edit: but ignore the flat-earther in the comments.