I had a stringent mentality before that I wanted to be an X. Not anymore.
Work needs to have certain things going on, and money beyond an amount is not that of a gamechanger.
I want to do exciting work. Life is too short to work just for money.
(That is not to say you shouldn't assume your pre-IPO equity to be worth anything though.)
I presume OP doesn’t live in SV because no way to buy just about any home here on a startup salary. Homes where I am went from $2m to $3m in last couple years. These pillars of dust full of termites somehow managed to get even more insanely expensive. I literally didn’t think it was possible to see a shitbox going for $3m outside of Palo Alto but I was wrong.
If it were a "I got a job, it's cool." condition, leetcode grinding would've been good advice but he says work is 1000x more exciting so I'm assuming he loves it.
A new goal for myself is to always be interview ready. I ll resume LeetCode pretty soon.