I think the point is more that the way the five year old learns isn't similar to
assimilate massive quantities of data related to the desired output and perform mathematical transformations on it, even at a subconscious level (and the five year old definitely has a "conscious level" driving it too). The learning speed isn't the issue, it's that the neural net is doing a fundamentally different thing from the five year old brain (and so its "knowledge" is also going to be orthogonal).
Which doesn't stop neural networks being immensely useful (and even significantly more useful than humans in relevant domains, especially five year old humans), but might well stop them from being sentient. Neural nets are probably already better at passing Turing tests than five year olds, but the five year old's love of mummy doesn't come from statistical analysis of a corpus of texts about love and mummies.