>FOSS solutions lack the UX and care more about the tech than the UX and solving the actual problem.
I read this sentiment all the time here but I am not sure it's true. Element works just fine.
My family has moved from facebook to instant messaging over the years, the great thing about IM vs social media is that all IM is the same so there is no real switching cost platform-to-platform, whether you use whatsapp or matrix or whatever