Every envelope you open will have a higher expected value than the previous one. This is not paradoxical, it is a standard property of probability distributions with infinite means.
I believe the problem you are trying to elicit is that you can almost show that either envelope is a priori better than the other. The problem with this is that the means are infinite so the math isn't sound. So there's not an actual contradiction; the strategy is to open either envelope and then switch to the other one. It's unintuitive but only because we're not used to reasoning about distributions with infinite means.