Oh, weird.
I’m not sure I’d have naively realized that the fixed amount in your envelope makes so much difference.
For people confused like me, think about the outcomes:
When the two are prepared together, say $2 and $4, then when you exchange your options are +2 and -2 with 50:50 odds.
When the second envelope is prepared based on $2 in your envelope, then when you exchange your options are +2 and -1 with 50:50 odds.
(I had to diagram this all out; unintuitive to me!)