Hardware engineer here: It is totally technically possible to have a SoC and socketed RAM.
Please stop taking Apple's own proprietary implementation as being some universal technical limitations for the entire industry. It's not.
Has anyone added socketed ram to any of the Qualcomm, Mediatek, Rockchip etc laptops out there?
... but we also didn't define whether we were using "possible" in an academic or commercial sense.
The thin-and-light segment has some pretty tough competition, and the best sellers are not the devices with the most sockets.
If you're choosing to put an ARM processor in a laptop, you're probably doing so because it helps you accomplish some of the things this market wants: a smaller thermal solution, lower power consumption, slick packaging, etc. Adding sockets doesn't really help you commercially position that particular product any better, it only hurts you.
Again, the original comment I addressed was the fallacy that it's technically impossible to have socketed RAM on SoCs, which is false, not whether the device with more sockets is better seller which is probably also false, but again, this was not the main topic and we can continue to discuss forever on the pros and cons of RAM sockets, so, having made my technical point clear, I will end the conversation here.