I've run ZFS for home storage and work backups for ~15 years, across Nexenta, ZFS-fuse, FreeBSD, and OpenZFS, backing up hundreds of machines, and have never lost data on one of them.
It was also very complex to manage compare to ZFS, with many different layers to consider.
I'm sure it shines in a data center, for which it has been designed. But unless something radical has changed in the last year, it's not for a budget homelab NAS.
Seen too many people's TrueNAS/FreeNAS installs glitch up over the years to trust the zfs community edition as a sane production choice. ZFS certainly has improved, but Oracle is not generally known for their goodwill toward the opensource community. ;-)
Overall been very little fuzz for my home NAS system.
BTRFS seems to be maturing nicely, hopefully we can start using it for these types of workloads in the next few years.