do you want to talk about it? or is there anyone you trust who you can reach out to?
is there anything we can do for you?
Is there a way to message another HN user, to be able to communicate without it being public but also without giving the world your email address?
No there's no "DMs" on HN as far as I know. I was tempted to add my mobile number, but being the public internet and all probably not the wisest choice.
(A day later, the Washington Post runs an article casting shade on direct messaging since it can be used to say bad things.)
So sorry to hear that. Hang in there! I know I'm just some rando on the internet, but if you need a listening ear, shoot me a note, as I'd be more than happy to chat - sometimes just talking things over with someone has really helped me a lot.
Been there the last 30 months, then because of that work stopped being fun. Now taking a time out, work gives me as much leave as I need, family/personal is harder to take vacation from. Sometimes you have to.
My friend, this too shall pass. You are strong for having made it this far.