Even GOV.UK, an incredibly lean website by today's standards, only noticed a 10% difference in their benchmarks.
Cue all the people going on about big O for parts of the code that are indistinguishable from noise in actual benchmarks.
I wish we could have standardized in the Linq-like API of jQuery.
The primary use case for it has been cross browser compatibility plus a bit of sugar. The former is _gone_ and the latter is easily replaced with a few lines of JS. Then there is an ecosystem of libraries and components around it. Many of them have ditched jQuery or have provided an API that doesn't require it.
I think if you strip out the AJAX support it can get extremely tiny.
To compare, just roughly:
For roughly the same size you can get declarative/reactive rendering with React, or an optimized FP standard library with ClojureScript, or data driven visualizations with d3 (roughly 2x the size).
For a tenth of the size you can get stuff like htmx, or a json validation library (avj), or like someone said Preact (React alternative).
But for jQuery, you're paying that for basically nothing the browser APIs don't already provide. It was a godsend 10y ago, but with legacy browsers finally fading out, the last one being ie11, you really don't _need_ it anymore.