I first heard the word Numinous used by Terrance McKenna to describe objects with spirit:
numinous, adjective, having a strong religious or spiritual quality; indicating or suggesting the presence of a divinity,"the strange, numinous beauty of this ancient landmark"
Upon further research, I found a related Japanese word "Tsukumogami":
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tsukumogami
"tsukumogami are tools that have acquired a kami or spirit. Today, the term is generally understood to be applied to virtually any object "that has reached its 100th birthday and thus become alive and self-aware", though this definition is not without controversy.
Robert Pirsig wrote a book related to these concepts:
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry into Values is a book by Robert M. Pirsig first published in 1974. It is a work of fictionalized autobiography, and is the first of Pirsig's texts in which he explores his "Metaphysics of Quality".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zen_and_the_Art_of_Motorcycle_...
Finally I once picked up a stainless steel spoon at a Portsmouth, Virginia thrift store for a quarter while in the Navy that had "NYC Rikers Island" engraved on it. That was my favorite spoon for a long time.