Having more data lines in a serial bus is interesting, as the whole reasoning to go from parallel lines (e.g. Centronics, ATA/SCSI or ISA/PCI buses) to serial (SATA/SAS, PCIe, USB) was that coordinating multiple data lines got impossible due to physical limitations where e.g. minimal differences in cable lengths started to matter).
Maybe. Though Infiniband's currently at 100Gbps per lane on a 1.5 meter passive cable. And active cables can give you a moderate boost while still on copper.
And my cables all have a "10 plug/unplug cycle lifespan" sticker on them - it undoubtedly will go for longer in practice but it's not designed for USB-style usage where you might plug and unplug your phone a dozen times a day as you charge it.
Commercial design concerns are very different from consumer design concerns, basically. Phones would probably be easier if we had a 1/2" x 1/2" x 1.5" connector with a shielded connector body! ;)