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Again, I recognize the injustice you are facing. But surely you can recognize that there are important, meaningful differences with respect to racial discrimination?

To put it differently: I object to your sense of proportion.

No omginternets, you are wrong here. Heightism and racism really is the same thing. If someone who is 160 cm doesn't get the manager job because however is recruiting don't believe his subordinates would respect him because of his lack of stature, then that is just as bad as a black person would't get the manager job because perhaps his subordinates don't respect black people. The point is how limiting the discrimination is, not whatever the historical background was.

In many countries, some jobs are de facto unavailable to short men. Next time you visit a schoolyard. See who the bullied kids are. They might have something in common. It might not be their skin color. It's not talked about a lot because it is taboo. It may be your sense of proportion (haha) that is incorrect.

> Heightism and racism really is the same thing.

The mental gymnastics is astounding

'Discrimination bad' is simpler than what's happening in your head, I think

Many women also find symmetrical faces attractive, is that also akin to racism? What about a preference for a square jawline? Preference for thick hair?

Is it immoral (akin to racism) for women to have any preferences at all, or just regarding height?

How do you feel about a white guy who doesn't feel attracted to black women? Is he part of the marginalization of black women by choosing not to date them?

Yeah it think it has it's roots in prejudice. I don't think society is at the point where i can say otherwise. Black women constantly get the short end of the stick on all dating apps across racial groups. On top of that because a large percentage of black mothers end up single mothers. There is also the part of how the black males behave towards them. But that is a different story all together. I am not getting into that.

Fair enough. That's kind of how I feel about the whole thing. It's shitty of people to be nasty to short guys. It's literally not their business.

It's crazy to me to see 5'7" being listed as basically undateable. I'm 5'7" and I'd say a quarter of my male coworkers are shorter than me. Some of them are hispanic or asian, most of them aren't. They don't seem to have any more trouble with relationships than the coworkers that are taller than me. Then again, the happily married man under 35 is not strongly represented in any height range here.

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