You don't need the first 10 trendy technologies you can think of
ARPANET was necessary for rapidly exchanging data and compute resources among research labs, which precisely was what it was designed to do. It just happened to find way more uses beyond its initial goals, and evolved into the internet we know today.
Ironic how sometimes people embedded in tech can be the biggest luddites.
A large majority of trendy new technologies in the software industry are driven by ephemeral industry buzz.
It takes time for us to collectively separate the wheat from the chaff. In the meantime it's generally wise to stick with what has worked in the past.