I did not call kolbes comments bad, but patiently explained where they got it wrong.
I think you’re seeing fighting where there’s none, at least not on my side.
We don't care about people saying "fuck". We care about the things that are in the guidelines, such as being kind, not being snarky, not calling names, and so on.
It’s really not unkind to point out when someone is aggressively misinterpreting really simple words.