> When did the war was meant to capture the capital on day three
Because supply lines.
As soon as you drop paratroopers, you have ~24 hours to reach them, or they are all fucked. They have limited ammo, no heavy support, unless you have air superiority. so dropping two waves of paratroopers is a dead giveaway.
> This is classical American way of waging wars: shock and awe followed by a mad dash to the capital
but to your point, this Russian war is not the classical American way of waging war. American war involves air superiority. close coop between armour, infantry and air, and keeping supply lines clear above all else. The amount of effort devoted to keeping forward bases stocked in Afghanistan is/was huge.
But more importantly it involves letting the "machine" do the work, not just chuck men at the problem.
> the main Ukrainian forces in the Donbas, will be completely encircled soon
Mariupol is currently surrounded.
But given that the Russians _still_ haven't managed to take the rest of Luhansk or donbas its seems optimistic. They've been at it since 2014.
> an 800 billion/year military that failed to pacify both Iraq and Afeghanistan.
which is also the point here. Now the Russians have one thing on their side here, they aren't afraid to just wholesale murder any civilian between 18-50. After all you can't have rebellion if there isn't anyone there to rebel. However I'm not really sure that pogroms are something to boast about.