full duplex ethernet circuits (eg: a basic cheap 10Gbps 1310/LR carried over two $30 transceivers and a six foot fiber patch cable between two pieces of equipment) and a half-duplex TDD/CSMA regime like 802.11b/g/n/ac/ax are not the same thing.
yes they both enable ethernet connectivity between devices on fabrics of things that can see and arp each other.
the ethernet 10GbE might be shared by many individuals. but it's full speed both directions. one is half duplex, the other is not. one has contention on the shared media airtime, the other does not.
they are both possibly shared in the sense that many peoples' traffic may be carried across the 10GbE full duplex circuit, the the real world implementation is very different.
the real world implementations of FDD point to point (FCC part 101) or similar radio systems are closer to wired ethernet in concept, though with less capacity.
however I do agree with your general point that more people should familiarize themselves with the limitations and usage methodologies for half duplex IP data mediums and the best real world implementations.