The big problem with videos is that the tech is not yet there is term of consumptions. Finding the highlights can be tough, and editing videos is still a manual and painful job. However, these are problems that technology will eventually solve (and is already getting better day by day, see for example how well Google Photos search for content inside a video today in a query like "[person1] [person2] [location]").
Ever since I had kids I made it habit to default to shooting videos. Not only as an observant, but actively participating in the moment (i.e. the video becomes sort of a first person view of my experience at that moment). Now that the kids are slightly older, they gain so much joy from just swiping through the videos and experiencing their favorite moments again. I do wish there was a TikTok for private videos that would make the consumption part more seamless and fun though.